They say it takes a village

Posted on: 13 May, 2025

I graduated last weekend with my Master’s degree in Social Work (yay!), but while I take pride in the accomplishment, I can’t help but reflect on how many people I have to thank from my “village”…including those I couldn’t see. 

Of course, my wonderful family who provided laughs, listening ears, and unconditional love. My professors and advisors, Dr. Ruth, Dr. Bennett and several others, who have supported me since I stepped foot on campus 6 years ago. Doctors and therapists who helped me through multiple health challenges. Teachers, coaches, and mentors who shaped my growth long before I ever got to college. There are those in my village whom I can easily recall by name and thank in person, but there are also those who make life moments like this possible, even when going unnoticed. 

A few names I do know. Mike, from the gardening staff who waved and smiled to me each day on campus, told me all about his granddaughter, and worked hard to keep the flowers and greenery on our campus beautiful. David, from the construction crew, who also greeted me with a smile on my walk to class as he worked long hours to build our classrooms and buildings. Denis, from the housekeeping staff who whistled while he worked, always had a joke, and worked hard to keep our spaces clean. Justin, our equipment manager answered every “how are you” with “living the dream”. I’ve been invited into rooms and conversations with leaders on campus such as our Chancellor, Athletic Director, Dean — yet, I’ve had the equal privilege of getting to know some of our staff and community remembers who often go without thanks. 

So, I’d like to use this as an opportunity to say thank you to the village that I know and love, and have the opportunity to thank ten times over; but thank you as well to the village that makes opportunities like this possible— our librarians, dining hall staff, custodial workers, electricians, contraction workers, and many others who show up with a smile, play a pivotal role in our community and on campus, but passed me by. I see you and I appreciate you. 

The phrase “you’re not alone” may seem empty or cliche at times, but when we stop to greet someone or reflect on our experiences, that phrase becomes a bit easier to believe. I challenge and encourage you to think of those who have impacted your journey, both directly and indirectly. Who is in your village? I am doing my best to reflect on the same. 

Blessings, 

Kelsey